In the Words of MyCheekyDate
So, you did it! You came to one of our MyCheekyDate speed dating events, had a fantastic time, and voilà — you’ve got a match. Now what? Well, that’s where the fun really begins. Here’s your guide to keeping things just as cheeky, confident, and connected after the event as they were during it.
After your event, you’ll head over to your MyCheekyDate dashboard and mark the names of the people you’d love to see again. If the feeling’s mutual, you’ll get that magical “It’s a match!” notification. You’ll receive their first name and email, and then it’s your turn to reach out. Keep it light, keep it breezy, and pick up right where you left off.
If you chatted about your mutual love of hiking, espresso martinis, or 90s throwback playlists — start there. A little continuity goes a long way in making your first post-event message feel natural and genuine.
💌 When and How to Follow Up
There’s no need to rush. Take things at a comfortable pace, just like at our events. Once the conversation flows easily, suggest something simple — a drink, a walk, a cheeky coffee meet-up. Remember, first dates work best when they feel effortless.
Here’s a fun insider tip: many of our daters love going back to the venue where they first met. There’s something nostalgic about revisiting that familiar space — turning a few minutes of speed dating into a full-fledged first date with chemistry already built in.
🌹 From Match to Magic
So go ahead — take that match and turn it into something special. Be yourself, stay kind, and let things unfold naturally. Whether it’s a follow-up coffee or a dinner that lasts three hours longer than expected, the best stories always start the same way: two people willing to show up and see what happens.
At MyCheekyDate, we’re cheering you on every step of the way — because we know that sometimes, all it takes is a few minutes and an open heart to find something truly extraordinary.