We're not a traditional matchmaking service, and we're not going to pretend otherwise. There's no consultation, no dedicated matchmaker managing your search, no ongoing check-ins.
What there is: a personality-driven compatibility questionnaire, built from curated introductions and social events hosted since 2007 in more than 50 cities, refined into the proprietary system we use to understand who's genuinely compatible with whom. This isn't a dating app, and it isn't a database.
Every match comes from the Cheeky Circle, our free, invite-only community of standout guests from our own evenings. Your part is simple: complete the questionnaire, and we take it from there.
Complete the Compatibility Questionnaire
One set of questions, built from curated introductions and social events hosted since 2007 in more than 50 cities. This isn't a basic demographic match — it's genuinely personality-driven, scored across ten categories:
We Score Your Compatibility — and Send It to You
Your answers are compared against everyone in the Cheeky Circle, our community of standout guests from our own evenings, who've completed the same questionnaire. With every prospective match, you receive your compatibility score directly: an overall percentage, the full breakdown across all ten categories above, and a short note from our team on exactly why we think the two of you are a good match.
Your Profile Gets Richer With Every Event
Events are included in every package, and we strongly encourage attending them. At each one, our smart card captures real, in-the-room signals — who you're drawn to, who's drawn to you — and factors that directly into your compatibility profile. The more events you attend, the richer and more accurate your matching becomes.
We Arrange the Date
This is where the real effort goes: coordinating both sides, choosing where and when, and making sure every detail is handled before you arrive. Time, place, first names shared in advance — all personally arranged. Coffee, cocktails, lunch, or dinner, your call.
What's Next
Want to see them again? We'll gladly exchange contact details. If not, we'll arrange your next introduction.
The Cheeky Circle is our free, invite-only community — standout guests from our own evenings, invited by our hosts and fellow daters because they were lovely to the room. It can't be bought or applied for; every member was noticed in person first.
Every introduction you receive through Curated Introductions is drawn from this same community. Want the full picture — how people get in, what it's like, why it matters for your match? Read more about the Cheeky Circle →
MyCheekyDate is part of the Constellation, seven in-person brands hosting evenings since 2007. Curated Introductions draw only from the Cheeky Circle, so you meet people from the MyCheekyDate world. Luvo Matchmaking, the Constellation's luxury matchmaking service, considers members of every circle.
Picturing a dedicated matchmaker managing your search? This isn't that. Curated Introductions doesn't manage your search, it scores it. What you're paying for is the arranging: turning a high compatibility score into a date that's already been thought through for you. Want a hands-on matchmaker instead? That's Luvo Matchmaking.
- Two personalized curated introductions
- Matched on compatibility, lifestyle, and dating intentions
- Preference review upon enrollment
- Complimentary access to social events while active
- Four thoughtfully selected curated introductions
- Guided by compatibility factors and shared intentions
- Preference review upon enrollment
- Complimentary access to social events while active
- Six carefully selected curated introductions
- Matched on compatibility, values, and lifestyle alignment
- Enhanced guidance on communication and first meetings
- Access to curated social events for your full package
Come to an evening
The Cheeky Circle can't be bought or applied for. Come to a MyCheekyDate evening, be yourself, and you may be the next guest our hosts and fellow daters notice.
Find an evening near you →The Gild Society
The Constellation's private dating club, and the one place where membership is by application. Members are welcomed at evenings across the Constellation.
Discover The Gild Society →Feel connected to a cause? Donate the value of your package directly to a charity you love, and we'll credit your experience with us in return. Learn more about Dating That Gives Back →