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Curated Introductions
A Matching System. Not a Matchmaker.
No consultations. No case manager. Just a questionnaire, a compatibility score, and a date personally arranged by us, down to the details — and there for you every step of the way.
"A lovely afternoon or evening out, with someone who shares your preferences and compatibility — arranged entirely by us. That's Curated Introductions."

We're not a traditional matchmaking service, and we're not going to pretend otherwise. There's no consultation, no dedicated matchmaker managing your search, no ongoing check-ins.

What there is: a personality-driven compatibility questionnaire, built from curated introductions and social events hosted since 2007 in more than 50 cities, refined into the proprietary system we use to understand who's genuinely compatible with whom. This isn't a dating app, and it isn't a database.

Every match comes from the Cheeky Circle, our free, invite-only community of standout guests from our own evenings. Your part is simple: complete the questionnaire, and we take it from there.

the process
How Matching Works
1

Complete the Compatibility Questionnaire

One set of questions, built from curated introductions and social events hosted since 2007 in more than 50 cities. This isn't a basic demographic match — it's genuinely personality-driven, scored across ten categories:

Lifestyle Pace Communication Style Ambition & Lifestyle Values & Worldview Humor & Personality Dating Behavior Family & Future Money Values Health & Lifestyle Romance & Attraction
2

We Score Your Compatibility — and Send It to You

Your answers are compared against everyone in the Cheeky Circle, our community of standout guests from our own evenings, who've completed the same questionnaire. With every prospective match, you receive your compatibility score directly: an overall percentage, the full breakdown across all ten categories above, and a short note from our team on exactly why we think the two of you are a good match.

3

Your Profile Gets Richer With Every Event

Events are included in every package, and we strongly encourage attending them. At each one, our smart card captures real, in-the-room signals — who you're drawn to, who's drawn to you — and factors that directly into your compatibility profile. The more events you attend, the richer and more accurate your matching becomes.

4

We Arrange the Date

This is where the real effort goes: coordinating both sides, choosing where and when, and making sure every detail is handled before you arrive. Time, place, first names shared in advance — all personally arranged. Coffee, cocktails, lunch, or dinner, your call.

5

What's Next

Want to see them again? We'll gladly exchange contact details. If not, we'll arrange your next introduction.

Here for you, with a dash of UK sense and sensibility.
where matches come from
The Cheeky Circle

The Cheeky Circle is our free, invite-only community — standout guests from our own evenings, invited by our hosts and fellow daters because they were lovely to the room. It can't be bought or applied for; every member was noticed in person first.

Not strangers. People the room remembered.

Every introduction you receive through Curated Introductions is drawn from this same community. Want the full picture — how people get in, what it's like, why it matters for your match? Read more about the Cheeky Circle →

MyCheekyDate is part of the Constellation, seven in-person brands hosting evenings since 2007. Curated Introductions draw only from the Cheeky Circle, so you meet people from the MyCheekyDate world. Luvo Matchmaking, the Constellation's luxury matchmaking service, considers members of every circle.

🤍 Worth Knowing

Picturing a dedicated matchmaker managing your search? This isn't that. Curated Introductions doesn't manage your search, it scores it. What you're paying for is the arranging: turning a high compatibility score into a date that's already been thought through for you. Want a hands-on matchmaker instead? That's Luvo Matchmaking.

three ways to begin
Choose Your Package
Every package includes complimentary access to our social events while active.
01 Simplify Me! $695
  • Two personalized curated introductions
  • Matched on compatibility, lifestyle, and dating intentions
  • Preference review upon enrollment
  • Complimentary access to social events while active
03 Indulge Me! $1,195
  • Six carefully selected curated introductions
  • Matched on compatibility, values, and lifestyle alignment
  • Enhanced guidance on communication and first meetings
  • Access to curated social events for your full package
Not ready for an introduction yet?
START IN THE ROOM

Come to an evening

The Cheeky Circle can't be bought or applied for. Come to a MyCheekyDate evening, be yourself, and you may be the next guest our hosts and fellow daters notice.

Find an evening near you →
PREFER A PRIVATE CLUB?

The Gild Society

The Constellation's private dating club, and the one place where membership is by application. Members are welcomed at evenings across the Constellation.

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Also available in CAD, AUD, and EUR. Now offering Date Now, Pay Later through PayPal, Affirm, and Apple Pay.
common questions
Curated Introductions FAQ
What does a "match" actually mean here?
It means a compatibility score. When you complete our questionnaire, we compare your answers against everyone else in the Cheeky Circle across ten categories — lifestyle pace, communication style, ambition & lifestyle, values & worldview, humor & personality, dating behavior, family & future, money values, health & lifestyle, and romance & attraction — and arrive at a percentage. We introduce you to the people you score highest with.
Do I get to see my compatibility score?
Yes. With every prospective match, we send you your compatibility score directly: an overall percentage, the full breakdown across all ten categories, and a short note on exactly why we think you're a good match. Nothing about the match is a mystery, and it's never just numbers — someone on our team looks at it and tells you why.
How do events and introductions work together?
Events let you meet people socially and become part of the community, giving us a real sense of how you interact. Introductions build on that with a more focused, one-on-one meeting from that same community.
Where do introductions come from?
The Cheeky Circle — standout guests our hosts and fellow daters noticed at MyCheekyDate evenings. No databases and no outside sourcing. If you'd like a dedicated matchmaker who considers members of every circle across the Constellation, that's Luvo Matchmaking.
Is this a heavily managed or personalized service?
No, intentionally. You share a few key details, age range, location, lifestyle, and we use that to arrange introductions from within our community. No ongoing updates or intensive requirements.
Is this like traditional or luxury matchmaking?
Not quite, and we'd rather be upfront about it. Traditional and luxury matchmaking services typically come with constant updates and an actively managed search on your behalf. Curated Introductions is intentionally lighter-touch: you share your preferences once and we arrange introductions from our community from there. If you're after that more hands-on, closely managed experience, you'd likely be better served by Luvo Matchmaking.
What information is shared before an introduction?
First names only. Once mutual interest is confirmed, we coordinate venue, date, and time, and share those details along with a brief description. Contact details are only exchanged if both people choose to, after meeting.
Are social events included?
Yes, and we strongly encourage attending. At each event, our smart card captures real, in-the-room signals — who you're drawn to, who's drawn to you — and that feeds directly into your compatibility profile. The more events you attend, the richer and more accurate your matches become.
Do I have to meet at a venue you choose?
Not at all. Suggest anywhere you feel comfortable, or we're happy to recommend one of our trusted partner locations.
What if I need to cancel or don't show up?
Please give us as much notice as possible; we're happy to reschedule. Missing a confirmed introduction without notice may result in forfeiture of remaining introductions in your package.
Is there a time limit to use my introductions?
Use them at a comfortable pace within the duration of your active package.
What's the typical age range?
Generally similar to our social events, typically early twenties through early forties.
What if someone behaves inappropriately?
Zero tolerance for rudeness or inappropriate behavior. Our community is built around respectful, engaging individuals, we believe the room matters.
Do you run employment or credit checks?
No. We don't evaluate anyone on income or financial status. Our focus is a comfortable, respectful environment, and how people show up socially.
💛 Dating That Gives Back

Feel connected to a cause? Donate the value of your package directly to a charity you love, and we'll credit your experience with us in return. Learn more about Dating That Gives Back →

Questions about a package? Email us at info@mycheekydate.com