Is Matchmaking Worth It? City-by-City Guidance

Matchmaking isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. How it works — and who it works for — can vary significantly by city, culture, and dating norms.

In some cities, matchmaking appeals to people seeking discretion and privacy. In others, it resonates with those looking for structure, follow-through, or relief from app fatigue.

The guides below explain what matchmaking typically looks like in each city, who it tends to work for, and when it may not be the right fit. They’re designed to set clear expectations — not to make promises.

Matchmaking Guidance by City

If you’re new to matchmaking, you may also want to review how the process works and who it’s designed for before exploring city-specific guidance.

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