The Experience Begins With You
Matchmaking is more than an introduction — it’s a shared experience between two people who are meeting with openness, curiosity, and respect.
This page outlines expectations and etiquette that make each Date-Night comfortable and enjoyable for both daters.
Respect the Appointment
Your Date-Night is a real reservation at a real venue with a real person waiting to meet you.
Please:
arrive on time
honour the reservation
confirm attendance
communicate schedule changes early
A date cannot be successful if someone is left waiting.
Be Kind and Open-Minded
Even if you don’t feel chemistry, your Date-Mate deserves warmth and kindness.
Someone may not be “your person,” but they are someone else’s.
A successful date is not defined solely by romance — it’s defined by respect.
Show Courtesy to Venue Staff
Your behaviour reflects on you — and on us.
Please:
treat staff kindly
honour the reservation
follow dining etiquette
avoid unnecessary demands
Hosts and venues are our partners, and courtesy matters.
Dress With Intention
First impressions matter.
We recommend arriving:
well-groomed
neatly dressed
in attire suited to the venue
Effort helps you — and helps your match feel valued.
Honour Privacy and Boundaries
Do not request personal information during the date.
Your Date-Mate may choose to share contact details only after mutual interest is confirmed through us.
Respecting boundaries builds safety and trust.
Avoid Interview-Style Questioning
Curiosity is lovely; interrogation is not.
A natural, conversational approach makes the date more enjoyable than checklists or rapid-fire questions.
Stay Present — Not on Your Phone
Phone use during a date communicates disinterest.
Kindly:
silence your phone
avoid texting
put it away visibly
A Date-Night deserves your full attention.
Keep Conversation Balanced
A great date includes:
listening
asking questions
sharing stories
showing interest
Talking endlessly about yourself — or sharing nothing — reduces connection.
Balance invites attraction.
Avoid Oversharing or Trauma Dumping
Vulnerability builds intimacy — but a first date is not therapy.
Please avoid:
rants
trauma stories
bitterness
ex comparisons
highly personal medical disclosure
Warm, relaxed conversation works best.
Be Honest — Kindly
If you enjoyed the date, say so.
If you did not, be polite.
Honesty without cruelty is the hallmark of emotional maturity.
No Early Pressure
A first date should feel:
light,
curious,
and pressure-free.
Avoid:
discussing exclusivity
future marriage plans
sexual expectations
or rushing connection
The pace should unfold naturally.
No-Show Policy Reminder
If you do not show up for a confirmed date without notice:
your package may be forfeited
and the program may be discontinued
Respecting time is central to our culture.
Alcohol & Conduct
If you choose to drink, please do so responsibly.
Aggression, intoxication, or inappropriate behaviour results in immediate removal from the matchmaking program.
Financial Courtesy
Each dater is responsible for their own purchases unless they mutually choose otherwise.
There is no obligation for either party to cover the bill.
Post-Date Communication
After the date, you will:
share feedback with us
indicate interest
and decide if you want to continue
If both wish to see each other again, we facilitate contact.
If not, we move forward respectfully.
Remember: You Represent the Community
Your presence at a Date-Night reflects the tone of our entire matchmaking culture.
We’ve curated a community of kind, thoughtful daters — please uphold that standard with pride.
Closing Thought
Etiquette isn’t about rules — it’s about care.
Showing up fully, kindly, and respectfully gives chemistry every chance to thrive.
Even if romance doesn’t unfold, dignity will.