From chic lounges in SoMa to cozy hideaways in North Beach, San Francisco blends style with substance. MyCheekyDate hosts personal, host-led speed dating events designed for authentic conversation, connection, and a touch of cheeky sophistication. Prefer something more curated? Curated Introduction Packages are available in San Francisco, while those seeking a more private, premium experience can explore Luxury Matchmaking, a founder-led approach built from these same real-world communities.

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NOVEMBER 8TH 2026 | SPEED DATING @ THE JAY HOTEL SAN FRANCISCO | AGES 32-46

Speed Dating @ The Jay Hotel San Francisco - November 8th 2026

Ages: 32-46 | 6PM

433 Clay St, San Francisco, CA 94111

Early Bird Admission - Ends 11/03 | $32.95

Regular Admission | $36.00


NOVEMBER 14TH 2026 | SATURDAY NIGHT SPEED DATING @ THE JAY HOTEL SAN FRANCISCO | AGES 29-42

Saturday Night Speed Dating @ The Jay Hotel San Francisco - November 14th 2026

Ages: 29-42 | 5PM

433 Clay St, San Francisco, CA 94111

Early Bird Admission - Ends 11/09 | $32.95

Regular Admission | $36.00


NOVEMBER 22ND 2026 | SPEED DATING @ THE JAY HOTEL SAN FRANCISCO | AGES 32-46

Speed Dating @ The Jay Hotel San Francisco - November 22nd 2026

Ages: 32-46 | 6PM

433 Clay St, San Francisco, CA 94111

Early Bird Admission - Ends 11/17 | $32.95

Regular Admission | $36.00


NOVEMBER 28TH 2026 | SATURDAY NIGHT SPEED DATING @ THE JAY HOTEL SAN FRANCISCO | AGES 25-39

Saturday Night Speed Dating @ The Jay Hotel San Francisco - November 28th 2026

Ages: 25-39 | 5PM

433 Clay St, San Francisco, CA 94111

Early Bird Admission - Ends 11/23 | $32.95

Regular Admission | $36.00


San Francisco Speed Dating, Hosted with Experience

MyCheekyDate hosts professionally organized speed dating events in San Francisco, bringing together local singles for structured, in-person conversations, no swiping, no guesswork. With over 900 events hosted in San Francisco and more than 26,000 across 50+ cities, each evening follows a proven, host-led format refined over nearly two decades, with events taking place regularly at venues such as Blackbird Bar.

Events are ticketed through Eventbrite, with clear expectations and transparent policies. Because these are live, in-person events, schedules may occasionally be adjusted to keep things well-balanced and enjoyable, a deliberate choice to protect the experience, and your ticket always remains valid for a future San Francisco event. If you prefer not to attend a rescheduled event, you may request a refund. It’s all part of the Cheeky Guarantee, a simple approach built around flexibility, clarity, and making sure guests are genuinely taken care of.

“Great mix of people, really well run, and surprisingly fun from start to finish.”
— Trustpilot review

And if you ever need help along the way, you’re always welcome to reach out — we’re here.

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The Cheeky Guarantee
If MyCheekyDate reschedules or cancels your event, you may request a full refund to your original payment method. Simply contact us directly and we’ll take care of your refund from there and make sure it gets processed. If your own plans change, your ticket remains valid as flexible credit and never expires, so you’re always welcome to reschedule for another event.