Our Core Values & Why Kindness Is a Prerequisite for Our Events
In the Words of MyCheekyDate
Let’s talk about what truly sets MyCheekyDate apart — not just our venues or technology, but the people.
We’re not only in the business of speed dating.
We’re matchmakers, advisors, and connection curators — bringing together daters who believe kindness is just as attractive as confidence.
Because what we do goes far beyond event coordination.
We guide, match, and coach — helping lovely people meet each other and themselves with more openness, warmth, and self-awareness.
🌿 The Cheeky Promise
At the heart of everything we do is The Cheeky Promise — our quiet but steadfast commitment to kindness, understanding, and genuine human connection.
It’s not just a tagline; it’s how we make decisions.
In a dating landscape full of rigidity, fine print, and “no refunds,” we believe in something different — compassion.
We know life happens: last-minute changes, delayed flights, heartbreaks, and hard days.
Instead of punishing that, we prefer to say, “No worries, we’ll find another date that works.”
That flexibility and empathy are part of who we are.
It’s what we mean when we say UK Style — polite, gracious, and a little cheeky, too.
💫 The Community We Cultivate
Our events feel like private clubs — not because they’re exclusive, but because they’re intentional.
We thoughtfully curate guests who share one thing in common: a kind heart and good energy.
Much like any great social circle, not every dater is for us — and that’s by design.
We often say a polite “no thank you” to those who don’t align with our values of warmth, respect, and openness.
It’s not about being judgmental — it’s about protecting the atmosphere that makes MyCheekyDate special.
After 18 years and thousands of events, we’ve learned something simple but profound:
The nicer a dater is — to us, to our hosts, and to their fellow guests — the more matches they tend to make.
Kindness isn’t just good manners. It’s magnetic.
🌼 Rewarding the Lovely Ones
Our loveliest daters — those who show up with positivity, empathy, and good humor — often receive more than just matches.
They’re the ones we:
Invite back for complimentary events
Include in our blind-date matchmaking program (at no additional cost)
Offer personal advice and coaching through our Advice & Coaching Desk
Because our role doesn’t end when the last date does.
We continue supporting daters with insights, introductions, and gentle guidance — ensuring that kindness and curiosity keep leading the way.
It’s our way of saying thank you for being the kind of person who makes our community thrive.
Because while dating can be emotional, kindness is what keeps the experience joyful.
We all have moments — but if someone can’t manage theirs respectfully, they simply shouldn’t be dating just yet.
🧭 Policies With a Human Touch
Our Policies & Guest Experience and Refunds & Cancellations pages mirror this same philosophy: fairness over rigidity, conversation over confrontation.
We’d rather work with our guests to find a solution than hide behind the fine print.
Compassion, we’ve learned, creates not only better experiences — but better daters.
💖 The Cheeky Takeaway
At MyCheekyDate, we believe that kindness is the ultimate compatibility test.
We curate for chemistry, but we screen for character.
Our community isn’t built on algorithms — it’s built on energy, empathy, and effort.
Those who get it, flourish here.
Those who don’t? That’s okay. We wish them well — just somewhere else.
Because at MyCheekyDate, open-minded daters make the best matches.
And kindness? Always our most attractive feature.