Cheeky Thoughts: So You’ve Matched at MyCheekyDate — What Happens Next?

In the Words of MyCheekyDate

So, you did it! You came to one of our MyCheekyDate speed dating events, had a fantastic time, and voilà — you’ve got a match. Now what? Well, that’s where the fun really begins. Here’s your guide to keeping things just as cheeky, confident, and connected after the event as they were during it.

After your event, you’ll head over to your MyCheekyDate dashboard and mark the names of the people you’d love to see again. If the feeling’s mutual, you’ll get that magical “It’s a match!” notification. You’ll receive their first name and email, and then it’s your turn to reach out. Keep it light, keep it breezy, and pick up right where you left off.

If you chatted about your mutual love of hiking, espresso martinis, or 90s throwback playlists — start there. A little continuity goes a long way in making your first post-event message feel natural and genuine.

💌 When and How to Follow Up

There’s no need to rush. Take things at a comfortable pace, just like at our events. Once the conversation flows easily, suggest something simple — a drink, a walk, a cheeky coffee meet-up. Remember, first dates work best when they feel effortless.

Here’s a fun insider tip: many of our daters love going back to the venue where they first met. There’s something nostalgic about revisiting that familiar space — turning a few minutes of speed dating into a full-fledged first date with chemistry already built in.

🌹 From Match to Magic

So go ahead — take that match and turn it into something special. Be yourself, stay kind, and let things unfold naturally. Whether it’s a follow-up coffee or a dinner that lasts three hours longer than expected, the best stories always start the same way: two people willing to show up and see what happens.

At MyCheekyDate, we’re cheering you on every step of the way — because we know that sometimes, all it takes is a few minutes and an open heart to find something truly extraordinary.

📝 Cheeky Thoughts: Great First Date Spots in Los Angeles — Our Cheeky Picks for Chemistry and Charm

In the Words of MyCheekyDate

Welcome to the Los Angeles edition of Cheeky Thoughts! We know that finding the perfect spot for a first date can set the stage for real chemistry, and we’ve got you covered with some of our favorite neighborhoods. Whether you’re downtown sipping cocktails with skyline views, enjoying a cozy corner in Studio City, strolling by the marina in Marina Del Rey, or taking in the beachy breeze in Manhattan Beach — these first date spots in Los Angeles are sure to add a little magic to your evening.

🌆 Downtown Los Angeles

1. Perch — A chic rooftop bar with stunning views of the LA skyline. Perfect for cocktails at sunset, it’s the kind of spot that makes a first date feel effortlessly glamorous — and a bit cheeky.

2. The Last Bookstore — For a more quirky and laid-back vibe, this iconic bookstore is a great place to wander through aisles of books and spark easy conversation. It’s a low-pressure way to connect while sharing a few laughs over unexpected finds.

🎬 Studio City / Sherman Oaks

3. Firefly — A romantic hideaway in Studio City with a gorgeous garden patio. It’s intimate and atmospheric — perfect for a first date that feels cozy and memorable.

4. The One Up — If you want something a little more playful, this arcade bar in Sherman Oaks is perfect. It’s casual, fun, and a great way to break the ice with a little friendly competition (and maybe a rematch date).

🌊 Marina Del Rey

5. Cast & Plow — Overlooking the marina, this spot at The Ritz-Carlton offers a sophisticated yet relaxed setting. It’s perfect for enjoying a sunset cocktail and watching the boats drift by.

6. Salt Restaurant & Bar — Located right on the waterfront, Salt offers breezy coastal vibes that make it perfect for a laid-back first date. Share a few small plates, take in the view, and enjoy the easy rhythm of marina life.

🏖️ Manhattan Beach

7. The Strand House — With its stunning ocean views, The Strand House is a top pick for a first date. It’s elegant but not stuffy — ideal for great conversation and that golden-hour glow.

8. Manhattan Beach Creamery — For something lighthearted, head to this charming ice cream shop. Grab a cone, take a stroll along the beach, and let the evening feel as effortless as it should.

💞 Our Cheeky Takeaway

At the end of the day, the best first date spots in Los Angeles are the ones that help you relax, laugh, and connect. Whether you prefer rooftops or beaches, the secret ingredient isn’t the venue — it’s the energy you bring to it.

Because as we’ve learned from hosting thousands of MyCheekyDate events across 65+ cities, real chemistry doesn’t come from the menu — it comes from the moment.

📝 Cheeky Thoughts: “Who Pays on a First Date? Our Cheeky Take on Chivalry and Chemistry”

In the Words of MyCheekyDate

All right, let’s dive into that age-old dating question that never fails to spark a lively debate: who pays on the first date?
We’ve heard every opinion imaginable — on Instagram, at our events, and from our lovely daters around the world. And yes, this topic always gets people talking! But here’s our cheeky take, and it might surprise you.

At MyCheekyDate, we absolutely adore chivalry. There’s something timeless and genuine about someone wanting to treat their date to a nice dinner or drinks. It’s a beautiful gesture — one that speaks to kindness and confidence.
But — and here’s the twist — we believe chivalry means even more after you’ve made a genuine connection.

💫 Real Chemistry Comes Before the Cheque

Imagine this: you meet someone at one of our MyCheekyDate speed dating events, you share an effortless chat, and the conversation just clicks.
That’s where authentic chemistry begins — and where true chivalry can follow naturally.

It’s not about grand gestures right off the bat. It’s about showing genuine interest after you’ve discovered a real spark. Many of our guests tell us they prefer to start simple — maybe just a drink or a coffee — and let things grow naturally from there.

The truth is, no one wants to feel obligated on a first date. The best connections happen when both people are relaxed, themselves, and open to where the evening leads.

💞 Modern Dating Etiquette, the Cheeky Way

We’ve hosted over 25,000 events across 65+ cities, and we’ve learned this: the most memorable matches come from people who focus on connection over convention.

Women often tell us they appreciate chivalry more when it’s genuine, not performative — when it comes from interest, not expectation.
It’s not about who pays the bill to impress; it’s about who shows up sincerely.

At MyCheekyDate, we believe modern dating works best when kindness comes first. Whether it’s offering to split the bill, picking up the first round, or planning the second date — what matters most is authenticity.

🌹 Our Cheeky Takeaway

So, who should pay on the first date?
Simple: whoever wants to.
Let it flow naturally, keep it thoughtful, and remember — the best gestures come from genuine chemistry, not social rules.

Because in the end, the most charming thing you can bring to a date isn’t your wallet — it’s your warmth, wit, and willingness to connect.

📝 Cheeky Thoughts: “It’s Not the Menu, It’s the Mindset: What 18 Years of Dating Events Have Taught Us”

In the Words of MyCheekyDate

Here we are — celebrating our 18th year of curating tens of thousands of dating events across 52 cities worldwide. After all those speed dates, Smart-Card matches, and countless cheeky conversations, we’ve learned something that may surprise you: sometimes the real dating challenge isn’t about who you’re meeting — it’s about the person looking back at you in the mirror.

💫 The Problem with the “Perfect Order” Mindset

We’ve seen it over and over again: daters put so many constraints on who they think they’re supposed to meet that they miss the people right in front of them. It’s like ordering from a restaurant menu — but dating isn’t a restaurant.

You can’t treat it like a job interview or a buffet where you tick off every checkbox: height, career, city, hobbies, dog ownership, and favorite wine. Chemistry doesn’t care about checklists. It just shows up — or it doesn’t.

When people approach modern dating like they’re curating a “perfect order,” they often end up missing out on something far better — the unexpected connection.

❤️ What 18 Years Have Taught Us About Real Connection

In fact, after 18 years, we’ve noticed a pattern:

The more someone demands, the less they often offer in return.

At MyCheekyDate, our best matches come from guests who are open, kind, and willing to be surprised. They’re the ones who approach each introduction with curiosity rather than criteria.

Our biggest piece of advice?
Get out of your own way. Be open to the unexpected. Step outside your comfort zone and let yourself meet someone who might just surprise you.

🌹 Where True Chemistry Begins

Because at the end of the day, the best connections aren’t about checking boxes — they’re about opening doors.

And sometimes, that door leads to a kind of chemistry you never saw coming — the kind that makes you forget about lists, rules, and algorithms altogether. That’s where the magic happens — and that’s exactly why we do what we do.

The Surge of In-Person Dating: Why Singles Are Ditching Apps for Real Connection

💫 A Quiet Revolution in Modern Dating

After nearly a decade dominated by swipes, DMs, and digital fatigue, something unexpected is happening — singles are craving real connection again.
Across cities like New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, and Sydney, attendance at in-person dating events has surged. Venues once reserved for post-work cocktails now hum with conversation, laughter, and the spark that no algorithm can replicate.

At MyCheekyDate, we’ve watched this transformation firsthand. Our events have seen record attendance in 2024 and 2025, especially among professionals and creatives who’ve simply had enough of curated profiles and ghosted messages.

📱 Why Dating Apps Lost Their Magic

Dating apps promised efficiency — yet created overwhelm. Studies show users spend an average of 90 minutes per day on apps, but report less satisfaction with matches.
Endless scrolling, mismatched expectations, and the rise of “textationships” (relationships that never leave the chat) have made dating feel transactional instead of emotional.

The pandemic years only amplified that. After so much screen time, many realized what they were truly missing: authentic chemistry, tone of voice, eye contact, and presence.

🥂 The Return of Real-World Connection

In-person events — especially those with structure, warmth, and personality — are filling that gap. At a MyCheekyDate evening, daters meet up to 15 people in one night, each conversation guided but never forced.
There are no pings, no profiles, no performance — just genuine energy between two humans sharing a moment.

Our hosts create what we call the “Cheeky-Chic atmosphere”: elegant venues, ambient music, and an easy social rhythm that feels miles away from the chaos of apps.

💌 The Data Behind the Movement

According to 2025 dating trend reports, in-person introductions are up 37 % year-over-year, while app usage among 25- to 40-year-olds has dropped by nearly 20 %.
Even the largest dating platforms are scrambling to host “live mixer nights” — confirming what we’ve always known: people still meet best when they’re face-to-face.

🌍 Where the Movement Is Happening

From Austin’s Oak Hill Social to London’s The Soho Residence, MyCheekyDate’s events are part of a global return to dating with intention. Singles want to laugh, flirt, and feel something — not just swipe through profiles on the sofa.

And the beauty of in-person dating? You can see attraction unfold in real time — the body language, the spark, the subtle smile that says, “Let’s see where this goes.”

❤️ Why It Matters

Dating, at its best, isn’t about technology — it’s about humanity.
That’s the heart of MyCheekyDate’s mission: to remind people that meeting someone lovely can still happen in a beautiful room, not just a digital feed.