Being Lovely Has Its Perks
At MyCheekyDate, we quietly believe something that truly sets us apart:
How you show up matters.
Not just who you’re attracted to.
Not how many events you attend.
Not how quickly you find a match.
But the energy you bring into the room.
Kindness Is Noticed — Often and Intentionally
Our events are designed to feel warm, comfortable, and human. That atmosphere doesn’t happen by accident — it’s created by the people in the room.
Because of this, it’s genuinely common for kindness and good energy to be noticed at every event we host.
Our hosts, staff, and guests naturally recognize those who consistently:
Lead with kindness
Show up open-minded
Treat others with respect
Add ease to the experience
When someone brings that kind of presence into the room, it doesn’t go unnoticed.
A Quiet, Ongoing Thank-You
Because we value the guests who help create the experience, we regularly invite lovely daters back with our compliments.
These invitations may include:
Complimentary returns to future events
Opportunities to attend in different cities
And, for some guests, ongoing consideration for our complimentary blind-date matchmaking invitations
This isn’t rare — it’s part of how we host.
But it is always quiet, thoughtful, and discretionary.
Invitations are never guaranteed, never promoted, and never something that can be requested. They’re simply offered as a sincere thank-you.
Why We Do This
We don’t believe generosity should be transactional.
We believe it should be human.
By continually recognizing guests who elevate the experience, we:
Protect the tone of our events
Encourage kindness without turning it into a program
Create rooms that feel genuinely good to be in
The result is simple:
lovely people attract lovely people.
What This Is — and What It Isn’t
To keep expectations clear:
This is:
Recognition, not a rewards system
Discretionary, not automatic
Common, but never guaranteed
Based on behavior, presence, and consistency
This is not:
A loyalty program
A points system
A guarantee tied to ticket purchase
Something that can be requested or negotiated
Restraint is part of what keeps this meaningful.
One Ticket, Real Possibility
Every MyCheekyDate ticket grants entry to a thoughtfully hosted event.
For many guests, that single evening is exactly what they hoped for.
For others — particularly those who consistently bring warmth, kindness, and ease — that same ticket often opens the door to future invitations, shared with our compliments, or consideration for special introductions.
Not because they asked.
Not because they expected it.
But because they were genuinely lovely to be around.
A Final Thought
We don’t advertise this loudly.
We don’t promise it widely.
And we don’t turn it into a selling point.
Because the right people don’t need convincing.
If you value kindness, presence, and genuine connection, you’re already aligned with what we look for.
And quite often, that alignment is quietly remembered.
If you’d like to learn more, we invite you to explore:
Being lovely has its perks — not because it’s promised, but because it matters.