In the Words of MyCheekyDate
Here we are — celebrating our 18th year of curating tens of thousands of dating events across 52 cities worldwide. After all those speed dates, Smart-Card matches, and countless cheeky conversations, we’ve learned something that may surprise you: sometimes the real dating challenge isn’t about who you’re meeting — it’s about the person looking back at you in the mirror.
💫 The Problem with the “Perfect Order” Mindset
We’ve seen it over and over again: daters put so many constraints on who they think they’re supposed to meet that they miss the people right in front of them. It’s like ordering from a restaurant menu — but dating isn’t a restaurant.
You can’t treat it like a job interview or a buffet where you tick off every checkbox: height, career, city, hobbies, dog ownership, and favorite wine. Chemistry doesn’t care about checklists. It just shows up — or it doesn’t.
When people approach modern dating like they’re curating a “perfect order,” they often end up missing out on something far better — the unexpected connection.
❤️ What 18 Years Have Taught Us About Real Connection
In fact, after 18 years, we’ve noticed a pattern:
The more someone demands, the less they often offer in return.
At MyCheekyDate, our best matches come from guests who are open, kind, and willing to be surprised. They’re the ones who approach each introduction with curiosity rather than criteria.
Our biggest piece of advice?
Get out of your own way. Be open to the unexpected. Step outside your comfort zone and let yourself meet someone who might just surprise you.
🌹 Where True Chemistry Begins
Because at the end of the day, the best connections aren’t about checking boxes — they’re about opening doors.
And sometimes, that door leads to a kind of chemistry you never saw coming — the kind that makes you forget about lists, rules, and algorithms altogether. That’s where the magic happens — and that’s exactly why we do what we do.
