At a MyCheekyDate event, matching is simple: you meet people in person, privately rate each conversation, and receive your mutual matches once selections close. No paper scorecards. No awkward hand-ins at the end of the night. No public reveals. No app to download.
Behind that simplicity is something more considered: a proprietary matching system, built and refined by MyCheekyDate since 2007, that learns from what actually happens when people meet rather than from what they say they want on a profile.
This page explains what that means in practice: what happens on the night, how your privacy is protected, and where the experience can go from there.
You Arrive and Enter Your Bio
When you arrive, you access the Smart-Card through a secure web link on your own phone. No app download required. Before conversations begin, you enter a short bio directly into the Smart-Card: a few lines about yourself, written in the room, on the night. Simple, honest, no pressure to make it perfect.
You Meet People and Rate Privately
After each four-minute conversation, you privately rate the person you just spoke with across five tiers: a spectrum of genuine interest that captures not just whether you would like to see someone again, but how strongly you felt that. Nobody sees your ratings. The selection window stays open until midnight, so there is no pressure to decide in the room.
You Receive Your Mutual Matches
Once selections close, mutual matches are delivered privately. A match only exists when both people independently chose each other. One-sided interest produces nothing visible to anyone: no notification to the other person, no hint, no nudge. Just silence, unless it is mutual. From there, the introduction is yours to explore.
Everything is submitted electronically through a secure web link, privately, on your own phone, in your own time. The only thing anyone else ever sees is a mutual match, when both people chose each other.
Most people have questions about data before they attend their first event. Here are the plain answers, with no vague reassurance.
At registration, MyCheekyDate collects your full name and email address. That is the complete list. No phone number. No address. Most event companies in this space collect significantly more, including phone numbers that are sometimes shared with attendees or partners. MyCheekyDate does not collect phone numbers at all. That is a deliberate decision, not an oversight.
Your selections are retained in anonymized, aggregated form to support the Smart-Card machine learning over time. They are never accessible as individual identifiable records. No host, no staff member, and no MyCheekyDate employee can view who you selected or did not select on any given evening.
MyCheekyDate does not sell your data. The business model is events and matchmaking, not advertising. There is no structural incentive to share your data with anyone, and we do not.
Full name and email address at registration. A short bio entered on the Smart-Card at the event on the night. Five-tier private selections after each conversation.
Phone numbers. Address. Payment data beyond the transaction. No app means no background data collection between events. No advertising profile. Ever.
Only mutual introductions, when both people independently and privately chose each other. One-sided selections produce nothing visible to anyone.
Your individual selections. Who you chose or did not choose. Your ratings. Your data is never sold, never shared with advertisers, and never used for anything other than improving your future introductions.
A MyCheekyDate event does not have to end when the last conversation does. Because the Smart-Card learns from what actually happens when people meet, that intelligence can inform what comes next, from future events to highly personalized introductions outside of them.
Private, one-to-one introductions made outside of events, informed by real behavioral data from your Smart-Card activity rather than stated preferences alone. What you actually responded to in a room is a more honest signal than anything a registration form can capture.
High-touch, personalized matchmaking for discerning singles who want a more considered process. Informed by the same real-world behavioral data that powers the Smart-Card, applied to a highly personalized introduction process that no matchmaker working from interviews alone can replicate.
Ongoing social connections informed by Smart-Card behavioral signals, extending the experience beyond any single event into a broader community of people the data suggests you may genuinely connect with.
Curated professional gatherings where Smart-Card data informs room composition, so the people in the room reflect patterns already identified as producing strong connections, professional and personal.
Exclusive experiences built around compatibility patterns the machine learning has already identified. Invitations are extended based on behavioral data from your event history, not self-reported preference.
For a detailed breakdown of the Smart-Card's machine learning architecture, the four behavioral data signals, the stated vs revealed preference gap, and how 26,000+ events of real-world attraction data powers the entire MyCheekyDate ecosystem, read the full technical overview.
Read the Smart-Card Technical Overview