💛 How We Curate Our Daters
Why Our Rooms Feel Different — And Why That Matters
Speed dating only works when the people in the room want to be there — warmly, respectfully, and for the right reasons.
MyCheekyDate events are intentionally curated.
Not exclusive, not judgmental — curated.
Meaning we design rooms where lovely people meet other lovely people.
This page explains how that works, what it isn’t, and why it makes the experience so successful.
⭐ Curated ≠ Selective
We do not screen for:
looks,
socioeconomic status,
education level,
profession,
or background.
We screen for kindness, intention, and respectful conduct.
Great rooms are built with great people — not perfect people.
⭐ How Our Curation Works
1️⃣ Behavior Standards & Conduct History
We maintain a behavioral history across our brands.
Guests who behave:
kindly,
respectfully,
warmly,
and with good energy
are welcomed back enthusiastically and often invited with our compliments.
Guests who behave disrespectfully — toward staff, hosts, venue partners, or fellow daters — may be removed from future events.
Kindness isn’t optional here.
2️⃣ Smart Age Placement Support
Age ranges are advisory only, not rules.
But our team may recommend the age group where a guest will have the best experience.
This ensures rooms feel socially aligned without discriminating or excluding.
3️⃣ No Borrowed Profiles, No Random Crowds
We do not fill rooms with people imported from:
online dating apps,
social media scraping,
bars,
gyms,
or street recruiting.
Our daters come from MyCheekyDate events.
Which means real people — not random profiles.
4️⃣ Attendance Accountability
Guests who repeatedly no-show or disrupt room balance may lose future attendance opportunities.
Our events function because everyone participates.
5️⃣ Lovely Daters Are Recognized
Guests who consistently bring:
warmth,
friendliness,
ease,
and beautifully positive energy
may be:
quietly invited to future events with our compliments,
or considered for blind-date introductions.
This is never guaranteed — it is observed and earned.
⭐ Why We Don’t Accept “Any Warm Body”
Many dating events companies fill rooms however they can.
We don’t.
That’s why our outcomes are real, why the atmosphere remains calm, and why guests return.
⭐ What We Never Do
We do not:
guarantee matches,
guarantee partners,
allow hostility,
allow data scraping,
or accept abuse as “passion.”
Human safety and comfort come first.
⭐ How Curation Improves Experience
Our approach leads to:
better conversations,
more matches,
higher return rates,
safer rooms,
and a much more dignified dating environment.
Lovely people attract lovely people — and we protect that.
⭐ This Is Not Gatekeeping
We do not decide who deserves love.
We simply protect the tone of the environment so everyone has the chance to show up confidently and warmly.
It’s not exclusivity — it’s hospitality.
⭐ For Guests With Questions
Anyone may contact us to:
request event guidance,
ask which age group feels right,
or discuss attendance comfort.
We respond with clarity and kindness.
🔗 Internal Connections
Being Lovely Has Its Perks →
https://www.mycheekydate.com/being-lovely-has-its-perks
How Guests Are Recognized →
https://www.mycheekydate.com/how-guests-are-recognized
Complimentary Invitations →
https://www.mycheekydate.com/complimentary-invitations
Safety & Privacy →
https://www.mycheekydate.com/safety-privacy
Largest Speed Dating Company →
https://www.mycheekydate.com/why-we-are-the-largest-speed-dating-company