Who processes my ticket purchase for a MyCheekyDate event?

All MyCheekyDate tickets are processed securely by Eventbrite. Eventbrite is the merchant of record for your purchase and handles billing, charges, and any eligible refunds in line with their policies. MyCheekyDate does not store or have access to your full card details.

What is your refund policy if I can no longer attend an event?

Because all ticket sales are processed by Eventbrite, any eligible refunds are handled under Eventbrite’s refund policy and the settings shown on the event listing. In most cases, we focus on flexible rescheduling and non-expiring credits, while Eventbrite remains the point of contact for refund requests and billing questions related to your original purchase.

Can I reschedule my MyCheekyDate ticket to another event?

Yes. Our approach is to be flexible and understanding whenever life happens. If you can no longer attend your booked event, you can typically be moved to a future date or receive a non-expiring event credit, subject to availability and reasonable notice. Exact reschedule options are outlined on our Refunds, Reschedules & Event Policies page and in your event confirmation.

What happens if MyCheekyDate postpones or cancels an event?

If an event is postponed or cannot proceed as planned, MyCheekyDate will offer guests alternative dates, locations, or credits, and the Eventbrite listing will be updated accordingly. For one-off cancelled events where a refund is applicable under Eventbrite’s policies, Eventbrite will manage any eligible refund to the original payment method as the merchant of record.

Do MyCheekyDate tickets or credits expire?

Event tickets are specific to the date and city selected at the time of purchase, but when we extend a offer a credit due to a reschedule or life circumstance, those credits are generally non-expiring and may be used toward a future MyCheekyDate event in the same city or an equivalent event, subject to availability and any terms noted in your confirmation.

Who should I contact about a refund, charge, or billing question?

For questions about the charge on your statement, refunds, or billing details, you should contact Eventbrite support directly, as they are the merchant of record and the holder of your payment details. For questions about event logistics, reschedules, or credits with us, you can reach MyCheekyDate via the contact information listed on our Policies and Transparency pages.

How do matches and Smart-Card results work after an event?

At most MyCheekyDate events, guests complete their preferences using our Smart-Card digital scorecard during or shortly after the event. Matches are then processed and typically sent by midnight or within a short, stated time frame. You will only be connected with other guests where there is a mutual yes, and contact details are shared in line with our privacy approach and event format.

What can I expect from a host-led MyCheekyDate event?

Our events are boutique and host-led rather than loud or gimmicky. A friendly host greets you, explains how the evening works, manages rounds and timing, and is available throughout the event for questions. We partner with vetted, low-key venues and aim for a relaxed atmosphere where conversation and chemistry can develop naturally in a series of short, guided mini-dates.

How does MyCheekyDate handle guest conduct and safety at events?

We have clear expectations around guest conduct and behavior, outlined across our Policies, Terms & Conditions, and Cheeky Promise. Our hosts are empowered to intervene if someone is making others uncomfortable, and we may remove guests or decline future attendance where necessary. We aim to curate kind, respectful, open-minded daters and to maintain a safe, welcoming environment at every event.

Where can I review all of MyCheekyDate’s policies in one place?

You can view our core policies and guest information on our Refunds, Reschedules & Event Policies page, our Refunds & Event Cancellations page, our general Policies & Guest Experience page, and our Transparency & Trust hub. Together, these outline how we work with Eventbrite, how reschedules and credits are handled, and what you can expect from us as a long-established speed dating company.

How does a typical MyCheekyDate speed dating event work?

Most MyCheekyDate evenings follow a simple, host-led format. You check in with the host on arrival, are shown where to sit or mingle, and then take part in a series of short one-on-one mini-dates. The host keeps time, announces when to rotate, and is on hand to answer questions throughout. After the event, you submit your preferences digitally using our Smart-Card, and we send any mutual matches within a stated time frame, often by midnight.

What happens when I arrive at the venue?

On arrival, you will be greeted by a MyCheekyDate host or team member who will check you in and confirm your event details. They will explain how the evening works, direct you to your seating area, and let you know when the first round will begin. If you have any questions about the format, timings, or Smart-Card, you can ask the host before the event starts.

How long are the mini-dates and how many people will I meet?

While timings can vary slightly by city and venue, most mini-dates last around five to seven minutes. Over the course of the event, you will typically meet a series of potential matches in your age range. The exact number depends on the event, city, and turnout, but the goal is always to offer a curated, comfortable number of quality conversations rather than a rushed or overwhelming experience.

How do I record my choices and get my matches after the event?

Instead of paper scorecards, we use a digital Smart-Card system. During or shortly after the event, you log your yes, no, or friend choices for each person you met. Once everyone has had a chance to submit, our system processes mutual matches and sends them to you, usually by midnight or within the clearly stated time frame. You only receive contact details where both guests have expressed a mutual yes.

Are the events really host-led, or am I on my own once I sit down?

MyCheekyDate events are deliberately host-led from start to finish. Your host greets you, explains the flow of the evening, keeps track of rounds and timing, and is available if you feel unsure, need a moment, or have a concern. We are not a loud microphone or whistle-based format; the host is there to quietly guide the room and keep things feeling relaxed and easy.

What kind of venues do you use for MyCheekyDate events?

We partner with vetted, low-key venues such as lounges, wine bars, hotel bars, and intimate restaurants that suit conversation rather than chaos. The aim is a chic but comfortable environment with seating arranged to support one-on-one chats. We avoid venues that are excessively loud, brightly lit, or crowded in ways that would make it difficult to hear or relax.

What should I wear to a MyCheekyDate event?

Most guests opt for smart-casual or slightly dressy attire—think date night, but comfortable. You do not need formal wear, but we encourage you to show up as the best, most confident version of yourself. Our focus is on kindness, connection, and conversation rather than strict dress codes, so choose something that helps you feel like you, just a touch elevated.

How do you handle gender balance and ratios at events?

We aim for a balanced event wherever possible and monitor sign-ups leading up to the evening. Like any live event, there can be last-minute changes due to illness, travel, or life happening, but our goal is always to provide a fair, enjoyable mix of guests in each group. Where appropriate, we may add extra time with certain matches, adjust rotations, or extend credits to keep things as fair and enjoyable as we can.

What if I arrive late or need to leave early?

If you are running late, we recommend contacting us or the venue where possible so the host knows to expect you. Depending on how late you arrive, the host may still be able to slot you into the remaining rounds. If you need to leave early, you may miss a portion of the rotations, but you can still use your Smart-Card to express interest in those you did meet. Any reschedule or credit options are outlined in our Refunds, Reschedules & Event Policies.

Do you offer LGBTQ+ or themed events, or is everything mixed?

We host a variety of event formats, including traditional opposite-gender matching events, LGBTQ+ events through our sister brand MyCheekyGayDate, and themed evenings in select cities. Availability varies by location and demand, and new formats are added over time. Your event listing will clearly state the type of event, matching style, and any theme so you can choose what feels right for you.

Is there anything I should do to prepare for my event?

We encourage you to arrive a little early, bring a warm and open mindset, and think of a few light conversation starters you enjoy. There is no need to script your evening, treat it like a job interview, or over-prepare. The most successful guests tend to be those who are kind, curious, and willing to have fun in the moment—trusting that real connection often comes from small, genuine interactions rather than pressure.

How Our Events Work | MyCheekyDate Speed Dating Experience

💛 How Our Events Work

A warm, simple walkthrough of what actually happens at a MyCheekyDate event — from the moment you arrive to the moment your matches are delivered.

Whether it’s your first event or your tenth, this guide gives you a clear sense of the flow, the vibe, and the experience you can expect.

Our host-led style is intentional: it creates comfort, reduces pressure, and allows genuine connection to take center stage.

⭐ 1. Arrival & Welcome

Guests arrive at the designated venue and are greeted by a friendly host.
We believe first impressions set the tone for the entire evening, so our hosts make sure:

You’re welcomed warmly
You know exactly where to go
You understand the flow of the evening
You feel comfortable from the start

Check-in is relaxed, simple, and always personal.

⭐ 2. Guided Check-In

Your host will guide each guest through a quick, easy check-in process.

During check-in you receive:

A quick overview of the night
A table or section assignment
Any special instructions for that event
Access to our Smart-Card digital matching system

You’ll never be left guessing — every step is guided.

⭐ 3. The Host’s Opening

Before the event begins, your host gathers the group for a friendly introduction.

They’ll cover:

How long each date lasts
How and when rotations occur
How Smart-Card matching works
Where to go between rounds
Tips to help you relax and enjoy yourself

No whistles, no pressure — just a clear, calm start.

⭐ 4. The Mini-Dates Begin

Each mini-date lasts just a few minutes — long enough to get a feel for chemistry, but short enough to keep the energy fresh.

During each round:

You chat with one person
You decide if you’d like to match
You mark your choices digitally
You enjoy a natural conversation

Our events are intentionally low-key and boutique — nothing loud, rushed, or gimmicky.

⭐ 5. Rotations (Smooth & Organized)

Our host handles all rotations so guests never have to worry about where to go or what comes next.

You simply:

Stay seated
or
Move one seat to the next (depending on event format)

The host manages everything behind the scenes to ensure the evening flows effortlessly.

⭐ 6. Breaks, Breathers & Social Moments

Most events include small breaks to:

Grab a drink
Use the restroom
Chat casually
Reset before the next round

These moments keep the energy relaxed and enjoyable — no burnout, no stress.

⭐ 7. Smart-Card Digital Matching

Throughout the evening, you record your “yes” or “maybe” matches using our digital Smart-Card system.

There are no paper scorecards and nothing to turn in.

Smart-Card ensures:

Accuracy
Privacy
Zero awkwardness
Instant processing after the event

This also eliminates lost or illegible cards, giving guests a smoother and more reliable experience.

⭐ 8. Event Wrap-Up

At the end of the rounds, the host thanks everyone and offers any final guidance.

Some guests choose to stay for:

Another drink
A little extra socializing
Light mingling

Others head out with a clearer sense of who they connected with.

Either option is perfect — our events meet you where you are.

⭐ 9. Matching Results

Your matches are calculated and delivered automatically via email, typically within 12–24 hours.

Your match email includes:

Who you matched with
Their preferred contact method (based on mutual opt-in)
Tips for reaching out
Your next-event options (if applicable)

There’s no pressure — everything is handled discreetly and kindly.

⭐ 10. After Your Event

You’re welcome to:

Attend another event
Explore other cities
Try a different age range
Join sister brands like DoRelish, NetworkNite, or MyCheekySocial

If you need help choosing your next event, our team is always available.

📧 info@mycheekydate.com

⭐ Why Our Approach Works

We design our events around human comfort:

Boutique group sizes
Warm hosting
Calm check-in
Short conversations
No loud microphones
No chaotic setups
No pressure to “perform”

Just real people meeting real people — the way it should be.

⭐ Looking for Policies Instead?

You can find the official policy documents here:

This page is simply your experience guide.

⭐ Visit an Event

Find your next event in any city — your ticket is flexible and credits never expire.