How Our Matchmaking Works — Step-By-Step
Matchmaking can feel mysterious if you’ve never experienced it before — and even more so when different companies describe the process in vague terms.
At MyCheekyDate, we believe clarity builds comfort. Our matchmaking program provides a straightforward, preference-based path to meeting someone wonderful through curated introductions designed around your preferences, goals, and lifestyle.
This page outlines exactly how matchmaking works from start to finish, and explains what happens behind-the-scenes during your Date-Night journey.
Step 1 — You Reach Out to Us
The process begins when you contact our team at: matchmaking@mycheekydate.com
You’re welcome to share:
who you are
what you’re seeking
your dating goals
age ranges and preferences
where you’re located
From that first contact, we confirm whether our service aligns with what you’re hoping for. If so, we send an overview of our matchmaking options — including membership and package choices.
Step 2 — You Select Your Matchmaking Path
We offer multiple matchmaking routes so you can choose the one that fits your comfort level:
Membership — Include Me!
A yearly membership providing the opportunity to be selected for curated Date-Nights, with priority over event-based invitations.
Matchmaking Packages (Two, Four, or Six Date-Nights)
Each package includes:
a set number of curated introductions
full concierge scheduling
complimentary event access
communication handled entirely through us
Packages reflect the core principle of our service:
a set number of introductions, chosen thoughtfully and arranged with care.
Step 3 — You Share Your Preferences
After you register, we send a brief information form designed to help us better understand you.
This step is not an interrogation; it is a friendly, guided way to learn:
your relationship goals
what you enjoy
dealbreakers
dating history context
personal style
location preferences
The more open you are, the more accurately we can match.
That said, we avoid overwhelming clients with paperwork — this is not a 50-page profiling exercise.
Step 4 — We Begin Curating Matches
Once we understand your goals, we get to work.
This is where our matchmaking service differs dramatically from most of the industry.
Our matches come from:
1️⃣ Weekly Live Events
We host events every week worldwide — meaning we continuously meet new singles in person.
2️⃣ Outstanding Event Daters
Some daters are invited into matchmaking consideration based on warmth, effort, compatibility style, and social grace.
3️⃣ Existing Matchmaking Clients
You will meet members who are actively participating in the same program.
4️⃣ Real-World Interaction
We see singles communicate, laugh, engage, and reveal who they are — something forms and apps can never show.
There is no stagnant database.
No shelf of profiles.
No outsourced recruiting.
Human eyes guide every introduction.
Step 5 — The Match Offer
When we identify a promising introduction, we contact you with what we call a Match Offer.
A Match Offer reflects a full professional assessment based on:
your preferences
their preferences
compatibility indicators
lifestyle alignment
availability
and mutual willingness to meet
You will receive:
your Date-Mate’s first name
location details (handled by us)
and why we believe this introduction has potential
Important Clarification About Match Offers
Match Offers may be accepted or declined — however, because the matchmaking work has already been completed, each Match Offer counts toward the number of introductions included in your package regardless of acceptance or decline.
This clarity matters because matchmaking is a preference-based, curated introduction service, not a product-return model.
Put simply:
Introductions = delivery of service.
Whether you choose to move forward with a particular person, or wait for another introduction, the match work is considered fulfilled once the match is curated and offered.
Step 6 — We Arrange Your Date-Night
Once you accept a match, our team handles every detail:
scheduling
venue coordination
confirmation
communication
timing
reservation assistance
Daters use first names only.
Full personal contact is exchanged only if both request it after the date.
Dates may be:
coffee
cocktails
brunch
dinner
or anywhere you feel most comfortable
Your privacy is respected at every stage.
Step 7 — You Attend Your Date
On the day, you’ll arrive at the agreed venue and meet your Date-Mate.
No pre-date messaging.
No awkward texting.
No endless back-and-forth.
Just a simple, intentional blind date — thoughtfully arranged.
After the date, you share how it went.
If you want to see your match again, we manage the exchange.
If not, we move forward with your next introduction.
Step 8 — Your Package Continues at Your Pace
Matchmaking is not a race — it’s a journey.
You can:
take space between dates
attend speed dating events during your package
explore multiple first dates
learn, refine, and grow
There is no expiration rush.
Step 9 — Complimentary Event Access
A unique feature of our approach is complimentary admission to all MyCheekyDate events during your matchmaking package period.
Events allow us to:
observe who you’re drawn to
understand your style
expand your opportunities
And they give you additional chances to meet wonderful people beyond packages.
Step 10 — Matchmaking Completion
Your package concludes once your set Date-Nights are complete.
Some clients continue onto another package.
Others pair naturally and step back.
Many remain in the wider ecosystem to be considered for future matches.
Expectation Clarity
Matchmaking is a journey — not a guarantee.
What we deliver is:
curated introductions
human-led curation
privacy
respect
scheduling
aligned daters
We cannot deliver:
guaranteed chemistry
guaranteed outcomes
unlimited rematching requests
results outside human control
Introductions = delivery.
A Simple, Modern Blind-Date Experience
At its core, MyCheekyDate matchmaking revives something lovely:
the charm of being introduced thoughtfully to someone new.
It is:
warm
personal
human
and rooted in real-world interaction
Matchmaking should feel exciting — not stressful.
That is what we build.