Real Matchmaking Questions, Answered With Total Transparency
Matchmaking is new to many people, and clear expectations help everyone enjoy the experience more. Below are honest answers to the questions we receive most often — designed to remove confusion, outline our structure, and give you a reference point throughout your journey.
What information is shared before the date?
Only first names and venue details are shared prior to meeting.
Contact information — phone numbers, emails, or social media — is exchanged only if both daters want to continue after the date.
This protects privacy, comfort, and professionalism.
Where do your matches come from?
Matches come from:
our weekly Speed Dating & Networking events
individuals invited into matchmaking
and existing matchmaking clients
We do not recruit in bars, malls, gyms, or online swipe platforms.
Our pool is dynamic and refreshed constantly — not a static database.
Can I decline a match?
Yes. Match Offers can be accepted or declined.
However, because the professional matchmaking work has already been completed, each Match Offer counts toward your package whether accepted or declined.
Introductions = delivery of service.
Do you guarantee chemistry?
No, and no ethical matchmaking service should.
We introduce you to aligned singles — chemistry and attraction are uniquely personal.
Do I get to see photos or profiles beforehand?
No.
Our program follows a modern blind-date model to protect privacy and support genuine first impressions.
You receive first names and venue information only.
Do I have to meet people outside my age range?
No.
We respect your stated range and preferences, but we also encourage realistic flexibility.
Matchmaking works best when clients are open-minded — not when strict lines override compatibility.
Do you run background checks?
Every dater you meet is a registered guest of our programs.
We:
meet people in person
observe behaviour
and enforce strict conduct standards
That real-world involvement replaces anonymous online interactions.
Do you match based on income, career level, or status?
No.
We do not rank clients by earnings, job titles, property ownership, or status measures. Attraction and compatibility run deeper than numbers.
How are dates arranged?
We arrange dates at:
one of our preferred venues
or a venue you choose
We coordinate timing, reservation details, and confirmations.
What if I don’t show up for a date?
No-shows without notice result in forfeiture of the remainder of your package.
Respect for people’s time is non-negotiable.
How long does it take to receive a match?
Match timing depends on:
mutual compatibility
geographic region
and available daters
Some matches occur quickly; others require time.
What happens if I want to see my Date-Mate again?
If both of you wish to continue, we connect you.
If not, we move forward with your next introduction.
How many dates must I attend?
Your package covers a specific number of Date-Nights.
You may take them at your own pace — no expiration countdown.
Do events help my matchmaking?
Absolutely.
Events allow us to:
watch how daters interact
see who gravitates toward you
and expand opportunity
Attendance is complimentary during your package.
What if I want something more exclusive or elite?
If you are seeking a bespoke global sourcing service or a luxury concierge program with hundreds of personal requirements, our service will not be a match.
We are preference-based, community-driven, and real.
Why don’t you offer full profiles?
Because profiles are not human.
Seeing someone talk, laugh, move, and communicate at events provides far more real data than words on a page.
How do I get started?
Simply email:
matchmaking@mycheekydate.com
with information about yourself and your dating goals.
If we believe we can assist, we’ll respond with package details and next steps.
Summary
This FAQ exists to:
reduce misunderstandings
clarify expectations
protect both sides
and make the process enjoyable
Matchmaking works when handled with honesty, kindness, and realistic expectations — and we are here to guide you every step of the way.