Matchmaking Works Best for the Right People
Successful matchmaking isn’t just about chemistry — it’s about mindset, expectations, and emotional readiness.
The clients who thrive in our program share certain qualities that help introductions unfold naturally. Likewise, there are individuals matchmaking is not designed for — and being direct about this protects everyone’s experience.
This page offers honest guidance to help you understand whether matchmaking is a good fit for you.
Who Matchmaking Is Designed For
Matchmaking with MyCheekyDate is ideal for people who:
1️⃣ Want a Real Relationship
You’re seeking something meaningful — not entertainment, attention, or casual encounters.
2️⃣ Are Open-Minded and Curious
You believe attraction grows from personality, conversation, and connection, not just a checklist.
3️⃣ Value Human Interaction
You appreciate the charm of being introduced, rather than swiping endlessly.
4️⃣ Prefer Privacy and Discretion
Your dating life is personal, and you value a process that respects that.
5️⃣ Understand Chemistry Is Not Guaranteed
You know dating involves discovery — and you are comfortable meeting a range of personalities to find the right fit.
6️⃣ Are Comfortable Giving People a Chance
Rather than searching for a “perfect” person, you’re open to meeting someone aligned with your larger goals.
7️⃣ Want a Simplified Dating Experience
You’re busy — and like the idea of someone else coordinating logistics, venues, and timing.
8️⃣ Appreciate Real-World Pools Over Algorithms
You like that matches are drawn from:
weekly in-person events
real daters
a constantly refreshed community
Who Matchmaking Is Not For
To remain transparent and fair, we are very clear about who should not apply.
Matchmaking is not designed for individuals who:
1️⃣ Expect Guaranteed Results
Matchmaking can lead to love — but guarantees are not part of this service.
2️⃣ Are Seeking a Luxury, High-Sourcing Concierge Program
We do not search worldwide for custom profiles tailored to exacting demands.
3️⃣ View People as Products
There is no catalogue or shelf to choose from. Matches are curated, not selected like inventory.
4️⃣ Want Unlimited Control Over Every Preference
We respect preferences, but chemistry requires flexibility.
5️⃣ Expect Physical Perfection or “a type” without compromise
Matchmaking is about connection, not aesthetic fantasy.
6️⃣ Cannot Treat Matches With Respect
Grace, kindness, and courtesy are non-negotiable.
Rudeness results in removal from the program.
7️⃣ Want to Approve Every Detail in Advance
You receive thoughtful information, but not identity disclosures or contact details until mutual interest is confirmed.
8️⃣ Require a Matchmaker to Overrule Mutual Consent
Introductions only happen when both parties are open to meeting.
Why We Define Fit So Clearly
Because clarity prevents misunderstandings before they begin.
By explaining who thrives within our approach, we:
protect honest daters
reduce disappointment
eliminate unrealistic expectations
honour emotional investment
and create healthier outcomes
Clients who join knowing the structure tend to enjoy the process more — and form stronger connections.
Age Ranges & Eligibility
Our typical matchmaking ages reflect our event community — broadly early 20s through early 40s. That said, suitability depends on mindset more than birth year.
If you’re kind, intentional, and eager to meet someone genuine, age does not define your ability to benefit from the program.
Location & Availability
For matchmaking to work effectively, daters must:
live in regions we serve
be able to attend planned Date-Nights
and be responsive to communication
If travel, scheduling, or distance prevent attendance, matchmaking may not be suitable.
Emotional Readiness Matters
Matchmaking should be enjoyable — not pressured.
The most successful clients are:
emotionally available
respectful communicators
willing to share feedback
comfortable being vulnerable
and genuinely excited to date
If you are still healing, uncertain, or carrying unresolved resentment from past relationships, matchmaking may feel challenging rather than rewarding.
The Right Expectations Create Better Outcomes
Matchmaking works when clients expect:
introductions, not guarantees
variety, not perfection
real dates, not fantasy projections
chemistry that grows naturally
and a process grounded in humanity
The right attitude is everything.
In Summary
Matchmaking is for individuals who value:
real introductions
authentic connection
thoughtful human guidance
respectful interactions
and the willingness to explore possibilities
It is not for those seeking absolute control, fixed outcomes, or instant guarantees.
Understanding this difference is part of what makes the MyCheekyDate matchmaking experience successful.