Matchmaking Is Not a Fit for Everyone — and That Protects Everyone
Our matchmaking program exists to introduce kind, compatible, emotionally ready singles to one another.
Because every introduction affects another person’s experience, we are selective — thoughtfully and respectfully.
This page explains who we welcome into the matchmaking program and the reasoning behind that structure.
We Accept People Who Are Ready to Date — Not Just Wanting to Date
We look for individuals who are emotionally prepared to:
meet new people
try new energy
handle outcomes with maturity
and date with intention
Readiness matters far more than perfect circumstances.
We Accept People Who Are Kind and Respectful
Kindness is our most important acceptance criteria.
We work with:
thoughtful communicators
considerate daters
polite professionals
friendly personalities
We do not admit people who make dating hostile, transactional, or rude.
We Accept People Who Treat Others Well
Matchmaking is a shared ecosystem.
Your Date-Mate deserves your best qualities — and you deserve theirs.
We accept people who behave:
courteously at venues
warmly on dates
respectfully toward staff
responsibly with time
Culture determines success.
We Accept People Who Understand Dating Is Not Guaranteed
We welcome daters who see matchmaking as:
opportunity
possibility
curated introductions
Not guaranteed romance.
Matches are introductions, not outcomes.
We Accept People Who Can Handle Honest Communication
We accept clients who can:
offer feedback maturely
speak kindly
decline respectfully
share clarity
Those who attack, insult, or bully are removed.
We Accept People Who Are Logistically Aligned
We consider:
city of residence
realistic meetable distance
lifestyle compatibility
Someone who lives three hours away is not ideal for someone seeking local dating.
We Accept People Who Are a Fit for Our Dater Community
Our daters come from:
Speed Dating events
Networking events
and community invitations
We look for individuals who match the tone:
kind, curious, social, and lovely.
We Accept People Mature in Age & Expectation
Our core age range is:
early twenties through early forties.
Because our ecosystem lives within those demographics, outlying age ranges are reviewed case-by-case, not rejected — but expectations must be realistic.
We Accept Clients Open to Blind-Date Structure
Our model is blind-date matchmaking.
If someone insists on:
full profiles
photos first
filtering based on appearance alone
They are better suited elsewhere.
We Accept People Who Respect Safety & Boundaries
We require:
appropriate behaviour
venue courtesy
communication respect
Any form of harassment, aggression, or misconduct ends membership.
We Accept People Who Pay Honestly
We do not work with individuals attempting:
to avoid payment
to contest charges without cause
or to weaponize disputes
Trust is mutual.
We Accept People With Realistic Preferences
Preferences are wonderful — demands are not.
We accept those who:
understand flexibility
welcome surprise
value compatibility over symmetry
Rigid, hyper-specific demands lead to disappointment.
We Do Not Accept Everyone — And That’s Healthy
Being selective protects the experience for:
our matchmaking clients
our event attendees
and the community as a whole
We want good humans dating good humans.
Why Acceptance Criteria Matter
Selectivity ensures:
safer dates
better culture
stronger matches
kindness-focused community
and better long-term outcomes
The right people in = better experience for all.
If You’re Wondering Whether You’re a Fit…
Ask yourself:
Do you:
treat others with respect?
communicate kindly?
show up reliably?
feel emotionally ready?
If yes — matchmaking may be a wonderful experience for you.
Final Thought
Matchmaking is not about perfection or exclusivity — it’s about compatibility, values, warmth, and humanity.
We build this community intentionally because love thrives where people treat one another well.