Who Our Speed Dating Events Are Not For
At MyCheekyDate, our speed dating events are built around one simple idea: real people meeting in real life, with mutual interest leading the way.
They’re thoughtful, host-led, and intentionally human — which also means they’re not the right fit for everyone.
This page exists to help you decide — before booking — whether our in-person speed dating events align with what you’re looking for.
Our Speed Dating Events Are Not For You If…
❌ You’re Looking for Guaranteed Matches
Our events are not outcome-guaranteed.
We provide:
A curated, in-person event
A respectful, structured environment
The opportunity to meet other singles
What we do not provide is guaranteed chemistry or guaranteed matches.
Matches only happen when two people independently express interest after the event. Some nights produce several matches. Others produce none. That variability is normal — and honest.
❌ You Expect Hosts to Override Mutual Interest
Our hosts facilitate the experience — they don’t manufacture attraction.
Hosts cannot:
Force a match
Override another guest’s interest
Create introductions without mutual selection
Speed dating works because it respects choice. Anything else wouldn’t be ethical — or effective.
❌ You View Preferences as Entitlements
We design our events around clear age ranges and general compatibility — but attraction remains subjective.
Preferences help guide who attends an event. They do not guarantee:
A specific person
A specific number of matches
A specific outcome
If payment feels like it should entitle you to a result rather than an experience, our events may feel frustrating instead of enjoyable.
❌ You’re Booking Primarily to Seek Refunds
Our speed dating events deliver value through participation.
The service is fulfilled when:
The event takes place
You attend and participate
The opportunity to meet others is provided
Refunds are governed by the ticketing platform used at purchase, and personal outcomes are not a refundable metric.
If your primary focus is post-event reimbursement rather than participation, we recommend not booking.
❌ You’re Looking for a Passive Experience
Speed dating works best when guests:
Show up open-minded
Participate actively
Engage respectfully
Understand that connection is collaborative
If you’re hoping to sit back while the experience happens to you, our events may feel too participatory.
Who Our Speed Dating Events Are For
Our events are designed for people who:
Enjoy meeting others face-to-face
Respect mutual interest and consent
Understand that chemistry can’t be guaranteed
Appreciate structured, host-led experiences
Want a social, engaging night out with real potential
If that sounds like you — you’ll likely feel right at home.
One Last Thing
We believe clarity creates better experiences.
We’d rather help someone decide not to attend than attend with expectations our speed dating events were never designed to meet.
That honesty protects:
Our guests
Our hosts
The experience itself
If you’d like to learn more, we recommend:
Clear expectations make better connections — every time.